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Keep it in your shirt pocket, or pocket in back of those tight jeans, print it out, tape it on the fridge, make copies and distribute, print on t-shirts and big mugs (unlike Minnie), on leaflets, upload to your social media, share with family, friends, and therapists.
Read the text only, no interpretations: distillation of everything we know about ...
Phases of Intimate Relationship with the Narcissist
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Self-stalking persecutory objects and internalized voices (introjects): misidentifying them as external, not internal and so actually psychosis and we need to reframe
The voice of absence and counterfactuals (what if)
Colludes with sadistic superego or inner critic: guilt, shame, doubt, self-loathing, self-destructiveness
Success of hoovering is in order to silence these voices
In external mortification as well
Introjection is defense mechanism against neglect, abuse, trauma, abandonment: identification, incorporation, internalization
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